From this to That with a lot of fun

I helped my son Johnathan build a city with Legos. The city was a street, bridge, sky scrapers, a few cars, and some pedestrians. I am not sure how long it took but when we were finished I asked Johnathan if he wanted to destroy it and he replied yes. His brother Kyle would hear nothing of it and the city remained safe for another day.

I have a Lego bust of Boba Fett and it is awesome so far it has been built destroyed and rebuilt. That is what I love about Legos and life really. We call life a progression and we try to build on and learn from yesterday however everyday is really starting over and that makes it kind of exciting and fun .

Learning is certainly a progression however what we believe we are storing or keeping if it is not knowledge or experience is very replaceable.

When you put together Legos they can feel pretty permanent however they are not. It may take some coaxing but they will come apart and you can build over and over and over again.

Life can be tough and will get tougher but no matter what has happened I cant help but believe that you can build over and over and over again.

Back to one!

My wife is great at finding amazing dates. She has a knack for finding dates that are unique and a lot of fun. I think it was three years ago when she discovered that a film crew near our neighborhood was filming and looking for extras. I imagine that you can already tell what our date night was. You are correct, we were extras in a movie.

A movie set is weird, everyone has their role to play and only seems interested in that role. Movie scenes are not shot in sequential order and are often shot and reshot and reshot and reshot until the director gets the best shot or feels that they can piece together the best shot from all the shooting that has been done. Because of the desire to get the very best shot they can actors and extras are required to shot many scenes more than twice.

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The scene that my wife and I were in was a party seen at a house the scene in the movie could not have lasted more than five minutes but it was full of extras and took hours to film this scene. The movie was Ben & Ara it is a love story with two love interests that are diverse in culture, religion, and race. If you ever watch the movie and see the party scene I am the drunk that bumps into Ara.

Every time we needed to reshot the party scene the assistant director would shout “BACK TO ONE!” Everybody in the house would move back to the spot before shooting and do the scene all over again.

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Last night I was working on a project at the house I had made some huge progress and was feeling pretty good. I tried to build on that progress and broke what was working. Tonight when I get home from work I plan on starting the project all over again (because of yesterdays mistake).

We may discover that we have to go back to one sometimes or a lot of times and that is ok. As long as we have learned from shot 1 and 2 and 3 we are still making progress and in the end everything will be alright.