I finished a chair over the weekend. I cut and screwed together all the wood for the chair and (insert humble brag here), it looked pretty good. I used some smaller wood screws but assumed that the c HD air would be fine. I stood the chair up and then of course I sat in the chair. The chair was barstool height.
As I sat I felt better about my choice for smaller screws, then from about 4 feet I fell right on my but. I wasn’t seriously injured but I did feel some pain. My pride is hurt and my but is bruised. It is time for me to recuperate, redesign and rebuild.
I will have a cahir that I have built it will just take a little longer than I expected it to take.
Life will break the trick is not to let it break you. We all face setbacks but we cannot allow them to define us.

Set backs cannot demolish you without your permission
Hiral Nagda
There is a growing thought that, success without failure is impossible… I know mind-boggling right? So what is when I win without loosing? Well that is just luck.
Success is something which happens a consequence of our actions. Luck is something that happens based purely on chance. So failure is and will always be part of the process that brings us success. There is no shame in failure only n giving up.
There’s no shame in failing. The only shame is not giving things your best shot.
Robin Williams