I know what it was now

It was a few weeks ago and I was doom scrolling through Tik Tok. Watching funny videos, woodworking videos, bread making videos (homemade bread is incredible by the way) and I stumbled on a creator that I follows live stream. The creator was holding a debate. The debate had two arguments dealing with two separate topics. One argument I totally agreed with the creator on and could see no way to change my mind from the followers that engaged with the creator. The second argument really bothered me and not because i agreed or disagreed with the creator it was the way the argument was crafted. The argument really rubbed me the wrong way and I just couldn’y put my finger on why I didn’t like the argument.

I was bugged not only by the argument but also by the fact that I couldn’t name what was happing with this persons argument. Finally it hit me! The argument was a bad faith argument, precisely an appeal to ignorance bad faith argument. This is what I think it was what do you think? The argument was that; God is imaginary because you cannot prove the existence of God. See this is textbook appeal to ignorance. Since you cannot prove that god exists than the opposite must be true. This is the type of zero sum thinking that truly bugs me to no end.

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It is zero sum thinking that seems to be doing and has done major damage throughout the course of humans history. There is no doubt in my mind that the partisan attitude in the United States government has come from zero sum thinking. The racial animosity and divisions also come from a zero sum mindset as well. The zero sum theory is bad for society and the world and it is high time that humanity embrace the non zero sum thinking. Together we can and will all win.

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Happy Friday everyone

If you don’t than who will?

Have you heard the song “Made You Look” by Meghan Trainor? If not you should give it a listen it is pretty catchy. The song is so catchy that it has inspired a viral tik tok dance and YouTube phenomenon. So go ahead and celebrate hump day by listening to the song learning the dance and posting your videos on Tik Tok. Of course I would love to see the links in the comments of this post!

Meghan Trainor and Daryl Sabana welcomed their first child into the world on  Feb. 8, 2021. After her pregnancy Meghan Trainor shared how she had some body image insecurities and her therapist had her look at herself naked in the mirror for five minutes a day and compliment herself. It was this self help excercise in self love that was Meghan Trainors inspiration for “Made You Look”.

Self love is important. Self love is a state of appreciation for oneself. Exercising self love helps with, mental health, self esteem, motivation and anxiety. Self love is very important and can often be a struggle. Our society seems to be intent on giving us all kinds of reasons to engage in self loathing and few reasons to engage in self love.

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Next time you find yourself struggling with self love it would do well to keep in mind some of the lyrics from “Made you Look”.

I could have my Gucci on
I could wear my Louis Vuitton
But even with nothin’ on
Bet I made you look (I made you look)

Get up every morning, tell yourself you are beautiful and gear up to win!”

Manushi Chhillar